From Ordinary to Extraordinary.

I felt really bad this week because a raptor house blew down in a storm and by the time Jake and I came across it, one egg was smashed and a naked hatchling had died of exposure. Man, I would have saved that bird. But it had been such a damn frigid, windy, rainy night. The poor thing didn’t stand a chance. Had we come across him just after the house blew down, we could have saved him and that would have been an extraordinary event.

This is sort of maudlin, I know. But what is it that turns an ordinary event into the extraordinary? Love? Compassion? Sacrifice? Tragedy?

Once upon a time I read a work of fiction about a dying woman, a young woman. She loved no one and no one loved her. The young woman lived, and then she died. Like the vast majority of human beings throughout history, she left no mark. She didn’t rate a blip on anybody’s radar.

So I guess the question is, did I enjoy the story? Nope. Was I supposed to enjoy the story? I’m quite sure the story was not intended to be pleasant. Alas. My sister, on the other hand, loved the book precisely because of its banality, its pessimism and its nihilism. Existential nihilism argues that life is without meaning, purpose or intrinsic value. So, if the author was going for despair, she succeeded.

Although this passage from Hamlet has been the subject of some debate, I think it’s beautiful:

What a piece of work is a man, how noble in reason, how
infinite in faculties, in form and moving how express and
admirable, in action how like an angel, in apprehension how like
a god!

Of course Hamlet goes on to say:

The beauty of the world, the paragon of animals—and yet,
to me, what is this quintessence of dust? Man delights not me—
nor woman neither, though by your smiling you seem to say so.

So we are both ordinary and extraordinary at the same time. And that is what I like to read, the tale of an extraordinary act even when it results in tragedy, such as:

The Story of Orpheus and Eurydice, as told by Apollonius of Rhodes, Virgil and Ovid…

(Orpheus) “On his mother’s side he was more than mortal. He was the son of one of the Muses and a Tracian prince. His mother gave him the gift of music and Thrace where he grew up fostered it. The Thracians were the most musical of the peoples of Greece. But Orpheus had no rival there or anywhere except the gods alone. There was no limit to his power when he played and sang. No one and nothing could resist him.

In the deep still woods upon the Thracian mountains
Orpheus with his singing lyre led the trees,
Led the wild beasts of the wilderness.

Everything animate and inanimate followed him. He moved the rocks on the hillside and turned the courses of the rivers….

When he first met and how he wooed the maiden he loved, Euridice, we are not told, but it is clear that no maiden he wanted could have resisted the power of his song. They were married, but their joy was brief. Directly after the wedding, as the bride walked in a meadow with her bridesmaids, a viper stung her and she died. Orpheus’ grief was overwhelming. He could not endure it. He determined to go down to the world of death and try to bring Eurydice back. He said to himself,

With my song
I will charm Demeter’s daughter,
I will charm the Lord of the Dead,
Moving their hearts with my melody.
I will bear her away from Hades.

He dared more than any other man ever dared for his love. He took the fearsome journey to the underworld. There he struck his lyre, and at the sound all that vast multitude were charmed to stillness….

O Gods who rule the dark and silent world,
To you all born of a woman needs must come.
All lovely things at last go down to you.
You are the debtor who is always paid.
A little while we tarry up on earth.
Then we are yours forever and forever.
But I seek one who came to you too soon.
The bud was plucked before the flower bloomed.
I tried to bear my loss. I could not bear it.
Love was too strong a god, O King, you know
If that old tale men tell is true, how once
The flowers saw the rape of Proserpine,
Then weave again for sweet Eurydice
Life’s pattern that was taken from the loom
Too quick. See, I ask a little thing,
Only that you will lend, not give, her to me.
She shall be yours when her years’ span is full.

No one under the spell of his voice could refuse him anything. He

Drew iron tears down Pluto’s cheek,
and made Hell grant what Love did seek.

They summoned Eurydice and gave her to him, but upon one condition: that he would not look back at her as she followed him, until they had reached the upper world. So the two passed through the great doors of Hades to the path which would take them out of the darkness, climbing up and up. He knew that she must be just behind him, but he longed unutterably to give one glance to make sure. But now they were almost there, the blackness was turning gray; now he had stepped out joyfully into the daylight. Then he turned to her. It was too soon; she was still in the cavern. He saw her in the dim light, and he held out his arms to clasp her; but on the instant she was gone. She had slipped back into the darkness. All he heard was one faint word, “Farewell.”

Desperately he tried to rush after her and follow her down, but he was not allowed. The gods would not consent to his entering the world of the dead a second time, while he was still alive. He was forced to return to the earth alone, in utter desolation. Then he forsook the company of men. He wandered through the wild solitudes of Thrace, comfortless except for his lyre, playing, always playing, and the rocks and the rivers and the trees heard him gladly, his only companions. But at last a band of Maenads came upon him….They slew the gentle musician, tearing him limb from limb, borne along past the river’s mouth on to the Lesbian shore; nor had it suffered any change from the sea when the Muses found it and buried it in the sanctuary of the island. His limbs they gathered and placed in a tomb at the foot of Mount Olympus, and there to this day the nightingales sing more sweetly than anywhere else. ”

 

 

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12 Responses to From Ordinary to Extraordinary.

  1. Amber Skyze says:

    Awww, the poor hatching. Very sad that the young woman never experienced love. That’s truly a sad way to die.

  2. Penelope says:

    Nooooooo!!!!!!!

    Your post just made me maudlin and sad. And now I’m going to Starbucks to get a latte to feel better.

    Do you think Orpheus and Eurydice were reunited in the afterlife?

  3. Oh, I know Amber, poor birdie! If it had to happen, I wish it had happened when someone was around.

    Of course they were reunited in the afterlife, Penny! I love the reference to the rape of Persepine also - Persephone and her abduction by Hades to the underworld. Another great story!

  4. Jaye says:

    Oh wow, now there’s food for thought as I venture forth to smash some zombies.

    Beautiful post, Julia. Now I want to go digging through my mythology books to see what else I can find. Thanks.

  5. Katalina Leon says:

    This was a very beautiful post Julia.
    XXOO Kat

  6. Thanks, Kat. You and Jaye were the inspiration.

  7. Yes, Jaye, think as you smash zombies!

  8. Julia, I’m so sorry that this happened..I know how you feel. Little things like this can really change a day…It is sad..

  9. Ah, thanks, Savannah. Wish I could have gotten there soon enough.

  10. Tom Stronach says:

    The thing about classical literature was then, as it is now littered with excellent writing and those guys, as they were all guys back then, knew how to tell a story and were revered almost as gods for their abilities. And that’s the thing about authors today both guys and gals most of them bring so much feeling to their writings and we the reader feel that too.

    Whether it is joy, happiness, sadness….., bit like this post really there is a bit of happiness and sadness and we can feel it. You were a bit down with your bug and went for a walk with Jake and your maudlin feelings were exacerbated by the tragedy of the dead bird. then the story of the women who lived and died alone. there was a similar story over here a few years ago, in national paper, and I think anyone with feeling could not help be moved by the tragedy of it all.

    But getting back to writers, that’s what a good writer does and you did it here, so be proud and happy of that, that you can sit down at your computer and you can reach out and touch people in the most basic of ways, through their feelings, take a bow young lady ….

  11. Thanks, Tom. I felt as if I just sort of rambled. But then my brain does that from time to time. I like feeling in a story - and I also love symbolism. Which is why the old guys work for me.

  12. Sandra Cox says:

    So sorry about the hatchling. Hopefully, its on its next cycle of life.